Decisions, Decisions and Decisions !

Decisions are made everyday sometimes without even realizing it, like now I have made the decision to write this post earlier I decided I should attend class, but all in all we decide on things every single thing every day.

I have decided to post because I haven’t posted in a while and that is a decision. So what’s the point of this blog post?

The point is I have realized that every one has a different way of making decisions whether small or big although at times when big decisions are made people tend to seek advice from their peers and family.

Recently I have made a big decision I wont mention what exactly what it is because I do not like speaking to much about my personal life, a decision where there was two options and I followed my Gut, I made a decision that many wouldn’t approve of. But in the end it’s my choice. The thing is I was always worried about what other people thought of my decisions no matter what it was. For the first time I made a big decision like this on my own and I can honestly say its better than waiting for all the negativity to come from people, which leads to overthinking. I took my own initiative and thought about what would make me happy.

I was fortunate to be brought up making decisions on my own from a young age, and sorting out problems on my own from a young age to, my parents don’t really get involved in my personal life they respect my privacy but there are ground rules of course, they believe in the theory of letting me experience life first hand to find out what I like or do not like, and they know if they don’t allow me to go out when I am young I am going to be an old 45 year old wanting there young adult life back.

Point of this post is sometimes your gut feeling can be right, and no one knows yourself better than you do. Take some time and realize what you really want, if you make your own decision you cant blame anyone else for the way you feel, that’s how we learn and become interesting individuals.