Its 12:55pm and because I cant sleep I have decided to blog,
funny enough about love and why I continue to love whole heartedly and deeply
even though I have had my heart broken so many times, one of the reasons I do so
is because it’s a proven fact that Being loved is the primary need in all human
beings, I feel that If I can make a difference in someone’s life being it a
friend or a significant other my time spent on loving them was not wasted.
Everyone needs to feel like they are needed or wanted and that they serve a
purpose in someone else’s life.
I haven’t always loved wholeheartedly but I have come to the
conclusion that there is more good in this world than there is bad and if I can
spread a little bit of love wherever I go, hopefully I’ll be able to make a
difference no matter how small in this big world by passing on kindness,
generosity, selflessness and most of all a love toward other human beings (and
animals hehehe)
There is a difference between like, in love & love. When
you like someone you like them under certain conditions, you wouldn’t cross-oceans
for them. When you are in love it’s usually just a glorification of a temporary
infatuation, which usually turns into love. When you love some one there are no
conditions applied.
We being human often mistake someone being there for us, for
being in love with us, The truth is true & pure love will not leave you
questioning it will consume every part of you like a raging fire. I think we
become so needy for feeling loved we would accept any kindness toward us a
symbol of love. I Have loved a few and thought that I was loved in return but I
wasn’t I was just infatuated by having someone by my side that I started
accepting it as “love. “When I look back now as strange as it might seem is
that I’ve never found true love in a relationship with a significant other
although I have definitely loved some with my whole heart.
Many are scared to love because of their pasts, I would lie
if I said this did not apply to me, but I make sure that the fear is much
smaller than the ability to being able to love another human. Everyone deserves
a chance and there’s no use in comparing people because not a single one of us
are alike in anyway.
When it comes to being in a relationship with a significant
other, as much as I wish I had one I’m not ready to settle for anything less
than someone who is going to set my soul on fire.
