"Loving you is easy because you are beautiful"

Its 12:55pm and because I cant sleep I have decided to blog, funny enough about love and why I continue to love whole heartedly and deeply even though I have had my heart broken so many times, one of the reasons I do so is because it’s a proven fact that Being loved is the primary need in all human beings, I feel that If I can make a difference in someone’s life being it a friend or a significant other my time spent on loving them was not wasted. Everyone needs to feel like they are needed or wanted and that they serve a purpose in someone else’s life.

I haven’t always loved wholeheartedly but I have come to the conclusion that there is more good in this world than there is bad and if I can spread a little bit of love wherever I go, hopefully I’ll be able to make a difference no matter how small in this big world by passing on kindness, generosity, selflessness and most of all a love toward other human beings (and animals hehehe)

There is a difference between like, in love & love. When you like someone you like them under certain conditions, you wouldn’t cross-oceans for them. When you are in love it’s usually just a glorification of a temporary infatuation, which usually turns into love. When you love some one there are no conditions applied.

We being human often mistake someone being there for us, for being in love with us, The truth is true & pure love will not leave you questioning it will consume every part of you like a raging fire. I think we become so needy for feeling loved we would accept any kindness toward us a symbol of love. I Have loved a few and thought that I was loved in return but I wasn’t I was just infatuated by having someone by my side that I started accepting it as “love. “When I look back now as strange as it might seem is that I’ve never found true love in a relationship with a significant other although I have definitely loved some with my whole heart.

Many are scared to love because of their pasts, I would lie if I said this did not apply to me, but I make sure that the fear is much smaller than the ability to being able to love another human. Everyone deserves a chance and there’s no use in comparing people because not a single one of us are alike in anyway.

When it comes to being in a relationship with a significant other, as much as I wish I had one I’m not ready to settle for anything less than someone who is going to set my soul on fire.